No reasonable person ever goes into a relationship with the hope of getting cheated on.
Faithfulness is a big, big factor in deciding who or not to date, and when one’s heart has been broken a couple of times, that requirement becomes even more important.
Finding a faithful partner in three easy steps (Shutterstock)
So if a genuinely faithful guy or lady is what you are after, here are the three things you really want to know about.
The company you keep
‘Birds of a feather, flock together,’ they say.
If you are continuously in the midst of people who are serially unfaithful to all the partners they have been with, getting someone who is not unfaithful in those circles will be quite difficult.
A guy introduced to you by your friend who is well known for her promiscuity might assume you are the same and treat you with little trust and respect, just as you would treat a promiscuous person.
And without trust and respect, it would be quite hard to remain faithful to a partner.
Get involved in religious activities (Afrokind)
Get involved at religious centers
Of course, not everyone you meet at a mosque or church will portray the characters expected of real Muslims or Christians.
However, the chances of meeting those naturally moral, kind, compassionate and considerate men and women are highly increased in those places.
Exercise patience (Pinterest)
Very importantly, you must exhibit patience.
The type of guy or lady you want to meet and others like him are out there, but they are highly-outnumbered by the jerks and losers.
Therefore, see this as a process of sieving sand out of rice. It requires a lot of patience.